Montel Williams + Wednesdays = Sylvia Brown. When possible I watch, because I love some of her ideas. I think that where Past Lives is concerned, Sylvia is spot on target. However, I’ve heard her say repeatedly, “Honey, ghosts can’t hurt you.” I don’t agree with her about that. Not at all.Take Ghost Hunters for example. It has turned out to a very popular show, and reasonably so. Jason and Grant are personable, logical, next-door neighbor type guys, with seemingly good common sense. They’ve paired the unexplainable, with scientific technology, so they can conscientiously debunk unfounded sightings when possible. They go for undeniable evidence and their videos catch a lot of paranormal events, such as chairs sliding across floors, water glasses breaking, closet doors opening and closing, crew member getting smacked in the face - all by unseen forces. If you’re interested in these kinds of things you gotta love it! At the same time, you’re alerted to a certain level of danger present in ghost hunting.
Sorry Sylvia, but If a ghost can physically open a closet door, and slide a chair across the room, then it makes sense to me that a ghost can make physical contact with a person. And if a ghost can make physical contact with a person, and if they’re in a horrible mood because you look a little like the drunk driver that smeared them across a highway eight years ago, well you shouldn’t be surprised if you get physically contacted in an unseen-fist-in-your-face kinda way. Just like what happened to that guy in Ghost-Hunters who got bagged upside his jaw by some unseen force, landing him painfully on his back. This stuff happens!
Worse than this, as I mentioned in a former post, I think long term contact with ghosts can lead to illness and eventually even death. I know you must be thinking I’m pulling this out of my arse, but think about it. We all know ghosts can influence our electrical appliances. You know, change radio stations, turn lights on and off, make our computers go haywire, phones ring and no one is there, drain batteries from our cameras and recorders. That actually happened to me. I invited my ghost hunters group up to my haunted office to investigate. They strategically set up several video cameras, and recorders, which they left overnight. In the morning they came to pick everything up. Upon inspection, they found that each instrument had recorded for approximately twenty seconds before running out of juice. Each one was drained of batteries, even though they had purposely installed each with new batteries. But that’s not big news. Everyone familiar with ghost investigations knows batteries going dead is a pretty common occurrence.
Well, ask yourself this, if ghosts can drain batteries of their electrical supply, can they also drain humans of theirs? You know, tap into the aura and suck away at our energy levels. For many of you, you may be strong enough to carry a spiritual, energetic parasite of this sort. But what if you’re in a spiritually and emotionally vulnerable state - and who doesn’t get that way from time to time? Might the constant strain drive you to negative thinking or worse, mental illness? What if you’re immune system is suppressed, because of age, stress, illness, or medications? Might the persistent drain cause you to suffer more frequent illness, a faster decline? I think it’s not only possible - it’s probable.
But that’s not to say all invisible influences are toxic and negative. I believe we are also surrounded by angelic, healing spirit workers. The problem is, as we’ve all heard a million times, is not knowing which energies are within influencing distance. And of course, (probably) not ALL energies can move chairs, and open doors, and ring phones (though I have to add here that while composing this letter to you’all the phone has mysteriously rung seven or eight times and when I answered it all I got was dial tone…) but the ones that can, and do, though few and far between, can sock you in the jaw if they are so moved.
Confession time. I have been slapped in the face by unseen forces - twice. If you watch Ghost Hunters you know Grant has also been slapped in the face (once as far as I know), so I’m not the only one. It’s no fun, and I wasn’t even looking for ghosts either time. The first time I was laying in bed, and whammmm-slap, across the right cheek. It was a physical, audible slap. The sting lasted for several minutes. I looked around but there was no one nearby to blame except my ex-husband who was in another room at the time.
The second time, I was in my car, alone, at a red traffic light. (My phone just rang again - just one ring. I called my mom and asked her to call me back to make sure my phone is in working order. She did. The call came through. Service is good. This is weird because: A) It’s a business phone. B) It’s never happened before so many times. And, C) I am writing this.)
Anyway - to continue - I’m alone in my car, and I get slapped again! Same cheek. The only other person nearby is a girl stopped at the light beside me in another car. So Sylvia Brown, I KNOW ghosts can “hurt” people.
Of course, then we get into, is it a ghost, or is it a demon slapping and hurting people? Well, I can’t answer that with certainty. Does it matter? My guess is, it’s a demon. But, I also guess that sometimes demons hang out in places where we might seek ghosts, and how will we really tell the difference? A slap is a slap. A sock in the jaw is what it is. Energy drain is weakening to some degree, whether or not it is immediately noticed.
The show Ghost Hunters has fathered many new ghost hunting groups. I used to belong to a good one. The members were genuine, experienced ghost hunters. But sadly, life got in the way and we dismembered. A few months ago I tried a new one - A VERY NEW ONE. There were about 20 of us, and unfortunately for me, though most of the others claimed a healthy curiosity about the paranormal since childhood, and had “felt” weird things, none (including the group leader) had ever really experienced anything solid. Though I felt the new group was sincere in their quest, they were too green for me, so it was my first and last meeting with them. For a few minutes I thought about forming my own group, with people I know, but a halting thought rolled around my brain: maybe ghost hunting posed potential trouble I don’t need at the moment.
This is PART I - The Uncles. I will continue with PART II - Casper, next time!
Till then,
Gina Fox
Hello Gina.
I’m surprised no one has replied to this posting as yet. I have come across your site simply because I am researching sites that offer up legitimate points on the subject of self development. To me this also means spiritual growth and so on.
I have to reply to this because I too have heard Sylvia make this statement. Here is the one big hole in that statement. Energy is energy is energy is energy. Be it negative or positive or neutral. We are beings of energy on many different levels. Our bodies are energy. Every cell is made up of energy. Our spirits are energy. The makeup of the dimensions is energy.
So it just makes too much sense that a consciousness with ill intent can manifest enough energy to make contact with us. I have had many experiences with touch. Never a blow though. Maybe I have some really good guides that have stepped in at the right time. I don’t know. But I do know that I have had solid enough contact from an unseen energy force to the point (on many occassions) where my clothing (or bedding) that is covering me actually gets pressed down tightly around various parts of my body. I even feel the pressure of what appears to be weight bearing down on me.
So, if this can happen then it makes perfect sense that an apparition with ill intent should be able to cause physical harm.
I just wouldn’t want someone thinking that just because Sylvia said it that they are safe from any dark entities that they may see or feel. It’s always best to prepare/protect yourself by increasing your awareness.
One example of this happened to me just within the past two weeks. I was meditating and had reached a feeling of warmth and vibration when I got a cold chilly sensation in my lower legs and feet. I opened my eyes to see a dark presence at the foot of my bed. It was completely instinctual so I can’t really describe well what happened. I reacted before I could think and sent the energy that I had built up at this form. I literally felt a pulse leave me like a charge of electricity and this apparition seemed to recoil by throwing what I can only call its arms up for protection and then it dissipated.
So you can defend yourself. I just hope that I did not misunderstand what the presence was and that I did not hurt a good spirit.
I look forward to your future posts.
Mike
Hi Mike!
Thanks for the comments. It’s always nice to hear about other incidents of ghostly presences. I agree with you that people should be aware of how to recognize and protect themselves from unwanted spiritual leeching. I’ve heard Sylvia Brown say that “ghosts can’t hurt you,” to people suffering the most horrid of spirit invasions (even those with children being bothered) and all I can say is good luck to them and their kids if they just believe it. I’d say in some of those cases a family might just have to move. Especially when kids are being tormented.
I have a tendency to be in very active places where things move, white mists waft through, shadows dart about, slime drools down walls, wall rappings taint the silence, old garters appear from nowhere, etc…In the beginning I was very naive and suffered some health breakdowns (mostly bad allergies and such), and even an emotional condition of bear cave recluse-ivity - where for about three years I rarely went outside during daylight. (Not quite a phobia - just a real desire to stay nestled inside my haunted “bear cave” - if that makes any sense. And I’m sure it doesn’t.) Anyway, I’ve learned the hard way. These past couple of years I’ve gotten myself outside my shell, and I make myself get out during daylight! Hey, I even have a bit of a tan going - ha ha!
I also started doing a “Temple” meditation each morning I come into the office. I enter a very gentle trance where I go to my heart-chakra prayer chamber - which looks a little like an ancient Egyptian temple. There is usually a tame tiger there, which is awesome. Candles. Sunlight. White marble. I go to the candle area and start praying. As I pray the glow of candles grows larger, emanating through my heart, through my pores, surrounding me with a protective shield of God’s light. Like you said, it’s all energy, and reinforcement (daily rekindling) of the energy that we live through is crucial.
You might be wondering why I dwell in such a “spiritual” life. I had a psychic reading done once by a very extraordinary girl. All she said eventually came to pass. One thing she said, as we started the reading, is that I walk on other dimensions. She said she usually warns people about doing this because not everyone is equipped for it, but that some people are supposed to be working in these other dimensions, and I was one of them. As a hypnotherapist, I definitely work on various dimensions. I have found over the past fifteen years or so that I on the team that heals spirits - period. Live ones and other-life ones. Do I ever get scared of the ghosts and spirits? Yes. But mostly I’m left in wonderment, and peace of mind knowing there is living beyond this life. I have so much more to learn, and can’t possibly learn it all in these few years we get per lifetime.
Wow. Now you know way more about me than you probably wanted to. (Smile.) I am honored to have such an evolved person as you reading and contributing to my blog. Thanks again.
Hypnotically yours,
Gina Fox
“We all know.” Uh, yeah.
I get really scared when im alone and hear noises!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi.
i know this is really really late but i happened to stop on this cos something like this happened to me last year.
I’m 15 and me and my mum have had ghost experiences, and we dont look for them. they come to us.
Last year i was doing the exact same thing. I was sleeping it was 5 am. and i woke up cos i couldnt sleep cos my mum had gone to work. And then my cover fell off my face and something slapped my face. I tried to scream because i knew what it was. But i was found mute. i couldnt scream . and i couldnt breathe. It was choking me. and the thing was i was lying down as well. It really was choking me i felt a grasp on my neck or inside of me pushing my lungs so i couldnt breathe. It was so sudden for a few seconds but i felt so long. That was my most recent experience.
I really dont want to feel another one again, or encounter another again. So far ive encountered 3 that i know of, and it started when i was 2 years old. My mother told me about it.
i hope it stops. and i find its alot since we dont go to haunted places and stuff and we dont look for them.
I have a problem i have a spirit who wont leave me alone.He trys to have sex with me all the time.and has.I am not going to try to convince you that im not crazy or lieing you believe me or you dont.Have you ever heard of this before or has it happen to someone else you no if not can you tell me of someone who nos about this happening.Thanks Alicia
Can anyone tell me if i am losing it? My gran died recently and ever since the day of her funeral my car radio keeps changing stations. It always goes to the same station and then back to the original one i was listening too. Sometimes the radio switches itself on too and again goes to that same station. Is it possible it could be her and what would she be trying to say to me? Can anyone advise? Thanks Danielle
Hi Danielle,
I’ve heard of that happening, the radio changing stations and coming on all by itself. In fact, it happens to lots of people. It probably is your gran. I think our dearly departed can use electronic equipment - radios, TVs, computers, lights, telephones, stuff like that - to communicate that they are still with us, and to let us know that yes, there is life on the other side.
When my best friend’s dad died the phone would ring at all hours of the night and when she’d pick up, no one would answer. One day she came home and there was a faint, weird, hard to understand message on the answering machine - something about her dad.
When your gran comes around just think pleasant thoughts about good moments you shared together. That’s what they want, just to be acknowledged and usually they go away. Treasure these time with her as she reaches out - they won’t last long. Thanks for reading my blog. Maybe other people will give their opinions.
God bless you,
Gina
once in my house i was in my room trying to go to sleep and as soon as i closed my eyes i herd a noise so i opened my eyes to what happend and my closet door was wide open so i turn on the light to go and shut the closet and as i shut the closet i hear a kinda screaming kind of voice it freaked me out but i closed the closet any way
Danielle i think that your gran is trying to tell you somthing so next time the station changes listen to the song think what the song means or what your gran is trying to tell you with that song
Hi Gina, I read your story with great interest. I’am also a paranormal investigator and a nurse. I had to quit nursing due to a chronic illness, I’am immuno suppressed. I have noticed several things lately, I usually have low energy, but it has been worse, much worse, I feel drained, my headaches that I have not had in years have come back and I have been experiencing an upset stomach every night for almost 3 weeks now. I was feeling so drained I would get out of bed do whatever I needed to do and go back to bed. I was up in the middle of the night and came out of the bathroom and I heard “click” and the kitchen light which was across the room went out, which left me in pitch black. Upon inspection the light had been turned off, and the light was not loose. My mother she is 84 was “touched” by something cold on her hand yesterday. She has also been feeling “drained”. I used my dowsing rods and it said there was a spirit present, and it said it was my dad who died about 6 yrs ago, we live in his house with my mother. The dog went crazy barking. For some reason I don’t believe it is my dad. All of the sudden the rods and the energy got very weak, like the spirit was loosing energy. I guess my question is Im wondering if the spirit is draining me of my energy, not that I have alot and causing my headaches and stomach aches. ALso my mom. I did notice when I finally got up and got out of the house I felt better and felt like I had more energy. I have so many medical problems, that you tend to ignore things, but I have been going thru periods of this severe low energy and it would last for about 2-3 weeks and then I would feel better…It just does not make sense to me..I would make jokes with my husband and tell him I feel like a vampire is sucking the life out of me. I would become so drained that I would actually get short of breath if I stayed up for too long. I took a nap today and after I woke up my left upper arm was hurting, it felt like someone had grabbed it really hard like a man and it still hurts it feels bruised. There are lots of other little things that have happened that would make you think something is here, but Im not going to bore you with them. But I agree with you , I have a great respect for Sylvia Browne, but saying that a ghost won’t hurt you, is not really true…I think it depends on the personality of the ghost and why they are here and what they want. If you have ever read the book by the lady who the program the The Ghost Whisperer is about, she will tell you, she sees earthbound spirits and they are not always nice. ANd as we all know people in life are not always nice people, so when they die, they don’t automatically turn into nice spirits if they chose to stay earthbound for some reason. Well Gina let me know what you think.
Thanks for listening.
Joan
hello Gina,
from a child I was always feeling that I’m not alone
my mom and my step-father were always going out the nights and I were staying all alone hom
and I think I have the abilitiy to see them but not sure of listening
they make strange sounds on some old stuff
I think the house I used to live was haunted and maybe the ghosts moved on those old stuff as we moved to the other house
anyways before and now they still make noises
like something scruching or like something it moves them
seriously I can’t sleep the nights cz I feel like they leave when it’s sunny
I can’t sleep the nights cz I hear those noises
when the sun rises I open all my bedroom windows and then I feel ok
and I don’t listen those noises when I have the light on btw
are ghosts afraid of sun?